The girl of my dreams
Published: Mon, 02/14/22
I didn't know it at the time but when I found Janette, she became to me like my best friend and lover at the same time. It's really hard to just "find" someone who is a best friend. I mean, I've had four best friends in my life. And each of them was not easy to find nor did I find ANY of them "searching" for them. They all came into my life completely "by accident" when I was least expecting it.
I remember flying out to Los Angeles back in 1992 and driving together to a little mountain town called Julian. We had an almost magical time. I still remember eating with her in a little "mining" restaurant and the guitar playing and talking with her. I remember looking at her pretty face and her hair and wondering how in the world I had found such someone like her. But its now been 29 years we've been together and some of the romantic beauty has faded off the top but I find her to still be the main person I want to be around. I find every moment with her to be best spent. Not because of just her beauty but because of who she is. Now of course we've had our share of arguments and hard times too but I still find her to be the one I want to be with - even when her honesty hurts.
And I guess that's all part of having a best friend. They're real with you, even when you're not exactly wanting it. But that's the thing about love, its hard to find, and its hard to control. I mean you can be appreciative and try to be loving back and do your best. But true love tends to be a bit out of your control (except God's love).
God's love is there for you and I always. And its this love that has walked hand in hand with Janette and I through the years. Its been the constant, the bottom denominator, and the reason we've come through all the bad times and forgiven each other. It's this love that has been the light that has illuminated our darkness.
This is the love that you don't have to be "lucky" to find or be in the right place at the right time. And I've found that if you find "the one" that it will eventually turn sour without the author of love in the middle of it.
Today I hope you know how loved you are. Even if you can't feel it, you can know you are because the author of life and love gave his everything for you. If you need me to explain, then simply email me back.
Not only are you loved but we have been given life and options to choose this or that, go here or there and work hard to achieve our dreams. Many of us have families and friends and those we love. But in addition, you have a team of friends waiting here for you if you want it. I find it a beautiful thing working with you and others that connect with me online and I would love to meet you too!
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